So this is a conceptual follow up to the Because We Let Them series, to address a related but different issue. It also gives me the opportunity to better explain something that got taken out of context from Part 4. I’ll address that through a comment that was left on the article.
Perhaps my favorite illustration of the point I want to make today occurs in the movie Dragon: The Bruce Lee Story. In it, Bruce Lee is going up the stairs and tells his wife Linda “I love you.” She replies “In all the years we’ve been together, you’ve never said that.” And Bruce replies “But I meant it every day.” Then he does kung-fu on a wall and dies.
But this really sums up the point I want to make today which is this: actions matter and words don’t. Well, not usually. More specifically the words don’t matter when they don’t match the actions.… Keep Reading